Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver

Handcrafted traditional steel submissive Day Collars.
A symbol of devotion.
A gift of belonging.
A bond worn with pride.
This handcrafted steel Day Collar is more than jewellery — it is a quiet declaration of connection between Dominant and submissive. Designed to be worn daily, it rests at the base of the neck as a constant, grounding reminder of trust, protection, and chosen surrender.
Forged in surgical steel and finished by hand, each collar carries weight, permanence, and presence. It is cool to the touch, substantial without excess, and refined enough to remain discreet in the outside world — known only to those who understand its meaning.
Only twenty pieces are created in each production run. No mass stamping. No factory line.
Each one is individually assembled and personally checked to ensure the integrity of the threads, flushness, and closure. This is not costume jewellery. It is heirloom-grade steel, crafted for those who value authenticity.
To receive one is to be chosen. To gift one is to claim and honour the bond. A daily reminder of trust given, and devotion received.
Specifications
Circumference: 390mm along the inside (15 1/4 inch)
Height: 6mm
Material: Surgical Steel
Weight: 86g
How to measure
Measure the base of the neck where the collar will rest, just above the collarbones.
Your neck will need to be a MAX of 15 inches at the base of the neck.
This piece is intentionally structured and cannot be resized.
Use the reference image.
Designed for Daily Wear
• Suitable for 24/7 wear, including showering
• Secured with a discreet, inverted screw and Allen key
• Spare screws and keys available separately
• Screw should be checked periodically due to natural body movement
• Steel does not break under tension. Avoid wearing near heavy machinery.
Add Ons
Our pendants and kink beads are made to fit our collars
Complimentary Gift while stocks last
Add a free pendant
Crafted by Hand
• Each collar is individually made — not stamped, not mass produced, and not factory manufactured overseas.
• Slight variations are a hallmark of hand craftsmanship and a reminder that your piece was created, not churned out.
• Only twenty are made at a time.
Care
• Do not wear any metals in saltwater.
• As with all fine metal jewellery, scuffing can occur if repeatedly knocked against hard surfaces.
• When combining steel components (such as pendants or beads), minor contact markings may develop over time — this is natural for metal-on-metal wear.
• The closure screw is inverted before dispatch to ensure perfect alignment. Proper reinsertion is the wearer’s responsibility.
• These lock with a tiny invisible screw and an Allen key
• Check the screw regularly and tighten it if needed due to the movement of the body.
• No, we cannot customise steel to a requested size
• Yes, we ship worldwide
• Spare screws and keys are in the spare parts section of the website only, not here on Etsy. Find them here.
• NOT made in China
Disclaimer & Care Responsibility
By purchasing this item, you acknowledge and accept the following:
Metal Contact & Marking: When steel pendants, beads, or attachments are worn against the collar, natural friction may cause minor surface marks or colour transfer over time. This is an inherent characteristic of metal-on-metal contact and is not considered a fault or defect.
Surface Wear: All metal jewellery will develop scuffs, fine scratches, or wear markings if knocked against hard surfaces or worn continuously. This is normal wear and tear and does not qualify as a manufacturing flaw. Ongoing care and mindful use are the responsibility of the wearer.
Safety Warning: This collar is solid steel and will not release under tension. It must not be worn around heavy machinery or in environments where snagging presents a risk. The purchaser accepts full responsibility for safe use.
Closure & Assembly: The securing screw is inverted prior to dispatch to ensure optimal alignment and thread integrity. Correct reinsertion and tightening upon removal is the purchaser’s responsibility. Damage caused by incorrect installation, over-tightening, cross-threading, or failure to check the screw regularly is considered user error and is not covered by refund or replacement.
Normal cosmetic wear, improper use, or incorrect assembly does not constitute grounds for return or refund.
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13 Product Reviews
Absolutely perfect in every way!
“ Fits beautifully. Super comfortable. Lightweight but sturdy. It looks great and can be worn with other jewelry and still looks nice. It feels secure and sits beautifully exactly where I like it to sit. Oh, and the customer service is outstanding! I highly recommend these and will purchase more products and accessories in the future! ”
Review by Lylith L on Tuesday 2nd May 2023
Perfect
“ I've been collared for years and this is my 2nd day collar. The first one is Titanium, thickness 8mm and circumference 41cm. I love it but just a tad chunky on me. Now, this one fits me so well that I look like I was born with it! 6mm is a lovely size. Looks dainty & classy. I've been wearing this for 3 weeks (24/7) so far and there's no issue. Old one and this one can be worn together, for special occasions, maybe... ”
Review by Bushbunny P on Tuesday 6th December 2022
Silver Petite unity collar
“ I've been wearing mine over a year now and ABSOLUTELY LOVE it. Comfortable to sleep in. Wear 24/7 no problems. Many complement's from vanilla as well as those in the LS???? ”
Review by Nicole S on Monday 11th July 2022
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver Review by Fave N
“ I'm overjoyed with it! It is wonderfully beautiful and very well processed. ”
Review by Fave N on Sunday 25th July 2021
Submissive Day Collar. Petite Silver
“ Love so much, have not taken it off, beautiful and functional. Highly recommended. Many compliments???? ”
Review by Nicole S on Thursday 22nd July 2021
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver Review by Mark S
“ Great service and beautiful products #recommended ”
Review by Mark S on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver Review by Meow A
“ So genuinely perfect. ”
Review by Meow A on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver Review by Kaitlyn M
“ I love it!!! It fits ”
Review by Kaitlyn M on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver Review by Karen S
“ It’s beautiful thank you ”
Review by Karen S on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver Review by Samantha B
“ I wanted to use it for a bit before leaving a review. So far it’s wonderful. It’s surprisingly comfortable with a nice weight to it. Not heavy, but you definitely won’t go more than a few hours without feeling the light weight. It’s utilized 24/7, no discomfort to sleep with. I have not worn it long enough to determine 100% that it will not develop any rust or how the overall wear and tear will be, but so far it’s been a great product. ”
Review by Samantha B on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Silver Review by Bun B
“ An amazing product! Very happy. Feels comfy, not heavy at all and sits perfectly on the base of neck and easy to remove if needed. ”
Review by Bun B on Friday 3rd July 2020
Love it!
“ I have had my collar on for 5 years now and it is just like the day I got it. The steel is not thick so it looks pretty at work. My permanent reminder of who I belong to. ”
Review by J W on Saturday 27th June 2020














Absolutely perfect in every way!
“ Fits beautifully. Super comfortable. Lightweight but sturdy. It looks great and can be worn with other jewelry and still looks nice. It feels secure and sits beautifully exactly where I like it to sit. Oh, and the customer service is outstanding! I highly recommend these and will purchase more products and accessories in the future! ”
Review by Lylith L on Tuesday 2nd May 2023