Submissive Day Collar - Petite Black

Handcrafted traditional steel submissive Day Collars.
A symbol of devotion.
A gift of belonging.
A bond worn with pride.
This handcrafted steel Day Collar is more than jewellery — it is a quiet declaration of connection between Dominant and submissive. Designed to be worn daily, it rests at the base of the neck as a constant, grounding reminder of trust, protection, and chosen surrender.
Forged in surgical steel and finished by hand, each collar carries weight, permanence, and presence. It is cool to the touch, substantial without excess, and refined enough to remain discreet in the outside world — known only to those who understand its meaning.
Only twenty pieces are created in each production run. No mass stamping. No factory line.
Each one is individually assembled and personally checked to ensure the integrity of the threads, flushness, and closure. This is not costume jewellery. It is heirloom-grade steel, crafted for those who value authenticity.
To receive one is to be chosen. To gift one is to claim and honour the bond. A daily reminder of trust given, and devotion received.
Specifications
Circumference: 390mm along the inside (15 1/4 inch)
Height: 6mm
Material: Surgical Steel
Weight: 86g
How to measure
Measure the base of the neck where the collar will rest, just above the collarbones.
Your neck will need to be a MAX of 15 inches at the base of the neck.
This piece is intentionally structured and cannot be resized.
Use the reference image.
Designed for Daily Wear
• Suitable for 24/7 wear, including showering
• Secured with a discreet, inverted screw and Allen key
• Spare screws and keys available separately
• Screw should be checked periodically due to natural body movement
• Steel does not break under tension. Avoid wearing near heavy machinery.
Add Ons
Our pendants and kink beads are made to fit our collars
Complimentary Gift while stocks last
Add a free pendant
Crafted by Hand
• Each collar is individually made — not stamped, not mass produced, and not factory manufactured overseas.
• Slight variations are a hallmark of hand craftsmanship and a reminder that your piece was created, not churned out.
• Only twenty are made at a time.
Care
• Do not wear any metals in saltwater.
• As with all fine metal jewellery, scuffing can occur if repeatedly knocked against hard surfaces.
• When combining steel components (such as pendants or beads), minor contact markings may develop over time — this is natural for metal-on-metal wear.
• The closure screw is inverted before dispatch to ensure perfect alignment. Proper reinsertion is the wearer’s responsibility.
• These lock with a tiny invisible screw and an Allen key
• Check the screw regularly and tighten it if needed due to the movement of the body.
• No, we cannot customise steel to a requested size
• Yes, we ship worldwide
• Spare screws and keys are in the spare parts section of the website only, not here on Etsy. Find them here.
• NOT made in China
Disclaimer & Care Responsibility
By purchasing this item, you acknowledge and accept the following:
Metal Contact & Marking: When steel pendants, beads, or attachments are worn against the collar, natural friction may cause minor surface marks or colour transfer over time. This is an inherent characteristic of metal-on-metal contact and is not considered a fault or defect.
Surface Wear: All metal jewellery will develop scuffs, fine scratches, or wear markings if knocked against hard surfaces or worn continuously. This is normal wear and tear and does not qualify as a manufacturing flaw. Ongoing care and mindful use are the responsibility of the wearer.
Safety Warning: This collar is solid steel and will not release under tension. It must not be worn around heavy machinery or in environments where snagging presents a risk. The purchaser accepts full responsibility for safe use.
Closure & Assembly: The securing screw is inverted prior to dispatch to ensure optimal alignment and thread integrity. Correct reinsertion and tightening upon removal is the purchaser’s responsibility. Damage caused by incorrect installation, over-tightening, cross-threading, or failure to check the screw regularly is considered user error and is not covered by refund or replacement.
Normal cosmetic wear, improper use, or incorrect assembly does not constitute grounds for return or refund.
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8 Product Reviews
Day collar
“ My wife loves it. It's simple, it's flawless, and exactly what we were looking for. Customer service is second to none; responsive, friendly and so helpful. My only (not really an) issue is that as we live in the UK we have to wait longer - but that's testament to BB's craft. We will be repeat customers. Thank you so much! ”
Review by Andrew J on Sunday 25th July 2021
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Black Review by Mandy M
“ I am in love. This was a change from the bangle I was wearing previously. Super comfy and sits nicely. Couldn't be happier! ”
Review by Mandy M on Monday 21st September 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Black Review by Kyle M
“ This is the best locking metal collar we have come across. Easily hands down the best. Only one we have seen that comes in 1/4in sizes. It also is not as thick and bulky as the others. We have tried many others and none compare to this one. After a few weeks of wearing it. She says it is much lighter and less noticeable as far as weight, than any other we have tried. Leaves no need to want to take off from discomfort around her neck. First one she’s never wanted to remove from the weight. Extremely pleased!! ”
Review by Kyle M on Sunday 5th July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Black Review by Tamlyn P
“ tasteful & versatile, very striking, we love it ☺️ ”
Review by Tamlyn P on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Black Review by Caitlin W
“ Ahhhh I’m in loveee thank you so much ”
Review by Caitlin W on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Black Review by Setsuna A
“ Solid and beautiful. I wouldn't suggest sleeping with it on however. Laying down, the ring naturally slides up and it was pushing into the base of my skull, resulting in some headaches. Has a nice weight to it and the hinge and clasp are flush to the ring so it doesn't catch on skin or clothes. It is discreet as well (: and the matte black feels wonderful and smooth ”
Review by Setsuna A on Friday 3rd July 2020
Submissive Day Collar - Petite Black Review by Bigfish K
“ Beautiful piece, my lady didn't like it but it is a well made piece. ”
Review by Bigfish K on Friday 3rd July 2020













So chic.
“ Our second purchase after the silver one. Again, it's flawless. The black is beautiful. ”
Review by Saya P on Thursday 15th December 2022